Listening or Talking. The title is not what you think.

Here’s a quote to stimulate some thinking.

“Most of your unhappiness in life comes from the fact

 that you are listening to yourself 

instead of talking to yourself.”   ― John Piper

I do believe there’s a lot of truth in that statement. 

 From deep inside us come those feelings of self-pity.

 The “I’m a victim” thoughts, the “life’s too hard” thoughts. 

 Those thoughts that justify irritability

because of the difficulties in our lives.  

 Or thoughts that make us critical of others 

so that we feel lifted up.  

Our flesh has a never ending well of lies.  

And it’s far too often we drink from that well 

and feed our distorted mindsets.

These debilitating attitudes are the ones that

 are often so easy to see in others, 

but the same ones we are not so likely to see in ourselves. 

 It’s easy to preach a little “mind sermon” to someone 

when we can “so clearly” see what their problem is. 

 A mind sermon is one of those things you imagine saying, 

but would never actually dare to.  

Ever do that?

But what if we took the counsel of Jesus, 

worked on taking the wooden board out of our own eye,

 and stopped looking for sawdust specks in someone else’s?

What if we did like John Piper talks about in his book 

When I Don't Desire God: How to Fight For Joy 

(long title, life changing book) 

and got into the habit of preaching to ourselves?

Here’s what he says, “Well, God does not mean for us to be passive. 

He means for us to fight the fight of faith—the fight for joy. 

And the central strategy is to preach the gospel to yourself.

 This is war. 

Satan is preaching for sure.

 If we remain passive, we surrender the field to him.” 

When I visit some of my friends homes, 

I can see one way they’re doing just that – preaching to themselves.  

Here’s what some of my closest friends have been preaching 

to themselves (although that’s probably not

 how they were thinking of it.)

Here’s my friend Mandy’s kitchen window.  

She’s our pastor’s wife, in the thick of the battle.

 My sister-in-law, Johanna’s, bedroom was full of 

sermons to herself before she got married last year.

  Bless this dear girl for her faithfulness.  

She’s been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia by the Mayo Clinic.  

Years of sickness and doctors is not an easy road. 

A diagnosis of a disease with no cure is not an easy road.  

And yet, truth doesn’t change when life does.  

That is when we need to hear the truth 

preached every day.  

Even many times a day.

 Here’s Alison’s kitchen window.  

She’s the creative one, so her sermons tend 

to be beautifully hand painted and crafted. J

 Life as a homeschooling mamma and 

pastor's wife requires living in truth!

 And on my dear Mother-in-law’s kitchen windowsill 

is this quote from Francis de Sales.

 And here’s what’s on our fireplace mantel. 

The quote from Jim Elliot, who died taking the gospel to Ecuador.  

“He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep, 

to gain that which he cannot lose.”  

I did this quote near the beginning of 2 ½ years 

of fighting Lyme and Babesia.  

For me, this sermon said,

 “Surrender your health to God, and trust Him no matter what.  

It is worth it!”  

This thing of surrendering all to the will of God 

for something greater – what a hard thing

 for us human beings to grasp. 

But so very essential to living with joy!

So if preaching to yourself isn’t something you’re already doing, 

why not start with something simple and visible?  

Pick a song, or verse, or quote that fits 

what’s going on in your life.  

Hand write it if you’ve got that skill, 

or just type it and print it out.    

It’s a fact that we all have stuff in our lives. 

 Sometimes we just need to listen to the right voices

 instead of the wrong ones.    

P.S. If you’ve got a favorite quote or something that challenges you,

 I’d love to hear it in the comments!

"Send out your light and your truth; 

let them lead me; 

let them bring me to your holy hill 

and to your dwelling!"

Psalm 43:3